do you mind giving me a break? i am really not keen answering that question for the moment. these are some reasons people telling me why i should consider having a second child soon:
a) juita seems lonely.
b) biar susah susah dahulu, dah besar nanti,senang
c) takkan nak anak satu aje kan
d) juita needs friends.
e) 2nd pregnancy wont be as bad as the first.
thank you very much for the concern given.i really appreciate it. as for now, i am really happy having just one child. i wanna shower her with lots of love,hugs and kisses. i wanna pamper her with luxury as much as i can. i want to experience a strong mother-daughter bonding with her. till the moment she tells me,"mum, i wanna adik." i might considering getting pregnant again.
plus, i am not KEEN with the idea of experiencing 360 drastic changes to my body again, with an additional 20kg to my bodyframe so soon, what more stay in the labour ward for hours and have to push the baby out for an hour!! Not forgetting the pimple breakout, the constant sweating and gestational diabetes and of coz, the 2 months post pregnancy recovery! all thanx to piles.
no, i am not being egoistic or selfish. you didnt go through what i went through.it was a very tough pregnancy for me and i dread going through that again. im really happy being a funky mum to juita for now.so no more of that question, ok? :)
im just thankful ALLAH bestowed me the most wonderful,beautiful,intelligent gem to me, Nur Ratna Juita. You are really the light of my life; the most beautiful lil princess i ever met my whole life..
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